Rockford Seeks NFP Coordinator

UPDATE (9/26): Looks like they found someone.

This job has been open for some time, but to my knowledge the position is still vacant:
The Respect Life Office of the Diocese of Rockford (Illinois) is seeking a full time professional to assume the duties of NFP Coordinator beginning July 1, 2008. The Diocese includes 11 counties in Northern Illinois. We have 105 parishes and approximately 400,000 registered Catholics. Our Bishop is very supportive and has issued a pastoral norm requiring all engaged couples to complete an NFP Seminar before marriage.

Rockford is 80 miles NW of Chicago and is a very affordable place to live.

Our program was granted DDP/NFP endorsement in 2005. We have teachers in Creighton, CCL and our own Diocesan method and are open to all standard methods of instruction.

Total fidelity to Church teaching, excellent speaking /writing skills and a valid driver’s license are a must. Fluency in Spanish desired, but not required. Competitive salary and benefits.

Interested candidates should submit: 1) letter of introduction including a description of qualifications for the position; 2) resume/CV; 3) name and contact information for three references. If available, please include a copy of at least one NFP related article written by applicant.

Reply to: Patricia Bainbridge, Director, Respect Life Office, Diocese of Rockford, 555 Colman Center Drive, Rockford, Illinois 61108 or pbainbridge@rockforddiocese.org

If responding via e-mail, please place on subject line: NFP Coordinator Position

That’s Why It’s Called the Divorce Pill


Miss Kelly, evidently, got the forward that I received recently from about twenty of my friends. Turns out pheromones, those odorless chemical scents we all emit, are not only messengers of eros, or human attraction. They may be the key to identifying not only a desirable, but a genetically optimal mate, and Miss Kelly gives a fabulous overview to various studies showing how chemical contraceptives thwart the whole natural process of finding and choosing one’s spouse.

My favorite line? “And you definitely can’t fool the vomeronasal organ. ” If I had a dollar for every time…Smells like the contraceptive movement is going up in smoke!

Green is the New Black: How NFP is beyond trend

 

There is no doubt that green is “in,” and veteran environmentalists hope that this is one warming trend that continues. But first, what does “Green is the new black” mean? Most ladies and fashion hipsters know the phrase, “______ is the new black.” It means the object of the phrase is the new basic—the black dress, the go-with-everything shoes, jeans, etc.—the thing that is a foundation to fashionable living. The phrase has been co-opted for non-fashion arenas, and I use it here to talk about environmentalism in balance.

While every day is a green day, Earth Day is solemnity in the secular liturgy of environmentalism. There appeared both government and grassroots efforts and celebrations across the globe, with people of all ages from ordinary folks to politicians to A-list celebrities. It was all quiet on the family planning front, though.

While some environmentalists grow caustic over the hip-factor of caring for our planet because it’s something they’ve been at for a long time, I say let’s take advantage of the green fervor to bring to light something many greenies haven’t thought twice about: Natural Family Planning, or NFP.

Doesn’t it seem interesting that we’ll go to great lengths to ensure our meat, dairy and other grocery products are “all natural” and hormone free, but then we’ll turn around and ingest, poke or patch our bodies with all sorts of synthetic hormones, the ramifications of which we’re still discovering?

The National Catholic Register wrote last July about the serious effects we’re seeing in the environment because of the residual effects of drugs, or what biologists call “endocrine disruptors”–particularly chemical contraceptives. Now, if the human side effects of hormonal contraception don’t catch your attention, perhaps non-mating intersex fish will hook you. Colorado biologist John Woodling, speaking to the Denver Post in 2005 said, It’s “the first thing that I’ve seen as a scientist that really scared me.” We’re not talking one freak fish here; it’s a significant problem, a problem so significant that the U.S. Fish & Wildlife Service and the American Pharmacists Association have a major public-awareness campaign regarding this contamination called “Smarxt Disposal.”

Years before the green trend train got going, Pope John Paul II said in 1990 that we have “a grave responsibility to preserve [the earth's] order for the well-being of future generations.” Pope Benedict, dubbed as “The Green Pope,” further emphasizes the need to “focus on the needs of sustainable development.” However, he reminds us that there must be a balance between the environment and people reminding us that humans are “the only one of all creatures on this earth that can establish a free and conscious relationship with his creator.”

 

With Pope Benedict, I urge my brothers and sisters in Christ and all people of good will to steward the earth’s treasures, but also to remember that we must value human life above all. “Population control” programs treat the humans as disposable carbon consumers, rather than unrepeatable and irreplaceable gifts from God, not to mention potential problem solvers to the world’s social and climate conundrums.

 

The contraceptive mentality of today’s culture sees fertility as disease and babies as burdens, but we forget that children are a blessing, and within each child is a God-given mission to be great and to do great things. Al Gore and Davis Guggenheim teamed up to make the 2006 Oscar award winning An Inconvenient Truth, their documentary on the global warming crisis. It was groundbreaking moment for filmmaking as well as the Green movement, but it would not have been possible without their conceptions and births.

 

NFP is of inestimable value for the world for more than just the environmental credibility. It also fosters fertility appreciation, love of children and has marital and psychological benefits. It is shared system of family planning that fosters communication, builds prudence and self-control and decreases sexual objectification. As I’ve said before, NFP doesn’t just have natural benefits; it has supernatural benefits. Gore and Guggenheim co-created a film that won an Oscar, but couples who cooperate with God’s plan for marriage and sex experience a personal & spiritual vitality that not only nourishes communication and mutual self respect, but it makes them icons of the Most Holy Trinity. That’s not a red carpet line, but a heavenly promise.

 

(C) 2008 The Catholic Herald, Madison, WI.

Humanae Vitae & death

The Lord has been preparing me for an unknown cross for some time, and on Thursday it became apparent in my soul that Friday would be the beginning of this. Can I drink the cup? I wondered, remembering the Lord’s words to St. James. At work we had put out a press release to the secular press, and in a town that likes to persecute my bishop and the Church, I was expecting that having my name as the interview contact would be the beginning of some semi-public persecution regarding Humanae Vitae, the Church, contraception and me in defense of Christ’s teaching.

It turns out that was far too wide a scope, and too high of a vain martyr’s hope. Instead, in came in the form of a call from my dad, sobbing my name over the cell phone. I have never in my life known my dad to cry in front of me, so I knew instantly what it was, and that my cross had come (or at least just begun). “Mom’s dead.” The cliches are the only apt expression–it was  like a train ran me through. Her heart stopped suddenly and quietly late Friday morning while standing in the pool with her dog. My dad was in town and at home, right by her side, thanks be to God. The emergency and medical drama lasted an hour or so, and persisted into the afternoon until she’d posthumously received anointing, had a visit from the coroner (to make sure there wasn’t anything suspicious), and my dad met briefly with someone from the funeral home. The definite cause is not known, but my dad is fairly sure that she died in his arms, and that her death was nearly instant. The doctor thinks it may have been an abdominal aneurysm that ruptured so deeply that her heart was drained swiftly. She was only 55.

Though my heart is broken and death casts a deep shadow over my soul, God has sent many little consolations in this desert time, and for that I’m grateful. This woman who was plagued by many secret sufferings, but found her consolation in the images of angels, was buried on the feast of Our Lady of the Angels.

 

Eternal Rest grant unto her…and let perpetual light shine upon her.