July 12, 2009 at 9:18 am (Uncategorized)

Mr. NFPworks & I have arrived in our Rocky Mountain home, with no little travelling drama along the way. That is the way of the life of apostles, and it was blessed nevertheless. I’ve been desiring to write on this and that since the beginning of packing, but it just hasn’t been practical. Now we’re settling, and there’s a little bit more time. Thank you for your patience, and stay posted for more NFPgoodness!
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June 21, 2009 at 11:41 pm (Uncategorized)
Tags: Carl Anderson, Father's Day, fatherhood, Fathers for Good, Knights of Columbus

To all you fathers and spiritual fathers out there–a belated Happy Father’s Day!
The Knights of Columbus have taken an awesome turn in the last several years under the leadership of Carl Anderson. They’ve sponsored sacred art, encouraged vocations, helped the poor, and in their new campaign, “Fathers For Good,” they encourage responsible, nourishing fatherhood. Simple, yet powerful. My favorite male saint, St. Joseph, gets a nod as model father, which I love. Also, there’s a great article by Tim Drake on priests as spiritual fathers, key father-figures often overlooked on this day. If it’s not too late (send an email or leave a phone message!), wish your pastor and priest-friends a happy Father’s Day.
I know nourishing faith and family implies a promotion of natural family planning, but considering contraception is one of the most dangerous things for a family’s faith and survival, it’s interesting that it’s not found a great voice on this site yet. Catholic writers–get your email and writing on!
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June 20, 2009 at 10:31 pm (Articles, News, Read It!)
Tags: Breast Cancer, Health, Natural Family Planning, NFP, Women's Wellness

In a forthcoming article in Family Foundations Magazine, I begin to break down what’s the deal with the credibility crisis in the world of natural family planning, and ask questions about the best way to market NFP. One thought is that we need to do a better job of capitalizing on the ills of contraception, and the benefits of NFP.
This article is perhaps not the most informative in the details section, but it’s a fantastic way to introduce and promote an NFP Class. Since the fastest way to get ignored in an article or press release is to say, “Natural Family Pla….[news station clicking delete]“, it’s a clever intro. Next time: a few more details or mentions of previous studies (the Mayo Clinic metastudy for example).
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June 16, 2009 at 10:18 pm (Humanae Vitae, Read It!)
Tags: Catholic Resources, ENDOW, Faith, Family, Humanae Vitae, Humanae Vitae Study, Marriage Resources, Natural Family Planning, NFP, Parish Resources

Recently I did a post on ideas for NFP Awareness Week, which is coming up (are you ready?). One of the suggestions was to start a Humanae Vitae Study Group. As a trained ENDOW facilitator I get these great newsletters (hint, hint–check it out) about what’s going on in the ENDOW world.
In the latest newsletter, There’s a couple things of interest related to NFP. First, there’s a great two page spread of Q&A on Humanae Vitae/ Family related topics. Second, they have a beautiful list of some of the fruits of the Humanae Vitae study in a parish,
“The following is an enthusiastic testimony that was submitted following the talk. It comes from an ENDOW facilitator who shares her observations about the ENDOW Study Guide on Humanae Vitae (Of Human Life)
My ENDOW group “lightly tread” into this study last fall. Out of nine women, the following occurred during the course of the study:
- One woman who gave up having a second child suddenly became pregnant and delivered a healthy baby boy.
- Two women who considered their families “complete” prior to the study, became pregnant with their fourth children.
- One woman who grieved the loss of her infant daughter and was scared to become pregnant again became pregnant and gave birth to a beautiful, healthy boy.
- One woman’s adoption process was completed by receiving a new baby while another woman’s adoption process progressed further than expected.
Humanae Vitae is alive and well within this group, and a new generation of Catholics has entered into our society thanks to ENDOW!
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June 16, 2009 at 7:10 pm (News)
Tags: NFP blog, NFP works blog, NFPworks

I’m in the process of packing, job searching, selling 2/3 of my belongings and my car, so posts may be thin for a week or two. Keep Mr. NFPworks and me in your prayers!
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June 12, 2009 at 9:44 am (Infertility, Prayer)
Tags: Family Planning, Infertility, Natural Family Planning, NFP, Saints, St. John of Sahagun

St. John (H/T Tony Visco for the illustration)
I just was reading up on St. John of Sahagun, whose feast day is today, June 12th. It looks like his parents were infertile for sixteen years before they conceived John, and afterwards had many children. Talk about fruit of the womb!
He was also very faithful in denouncing vices of impurity, and knowing that pure love is the true “free love,” that makes him a super NFP saint!
Other NFP Saints:
- Mary (of course–the most open, fruitful mother ever!)
- St. Joseph
- St. John the Baptist–miracle child of infertile couple, died defending purity and marriage, and incidentally, this was Pope Paul VI’s birth name
- St. Elizabeth–long infertile woman gifted with a beautiful boy in old age!
- St. Gianna Molla–martyr of maternal love
- Venerable John Paul II–theology of the body founder, defender of purity, holiness, marriage and social justice
Who else is an NFP Patron?
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June 11, 2009 at 10:06 am (I Heart My Fertility, Quotes)
Tags: fertility, Health, Taking Charge of Your Fertility, Toni Weschler, Women's Wellness

From Taking Charge of Your Fertility
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Do you realize that a part of every single one of us resided inside our maternal grandmother’s uterus, even before our own mothers were born? Unlike male fetuses which contain no sperm, female fetuses already contain all the eggs that the newborn child will ever have. What that means, practically speaking, is that when your mother was just a fetus inside hermother, she already had developed one of the eggs that eventually became you.
Wow.
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June 10, 2009 at 8:16 am (Ideas, Morality & Ethics)
Tags: Catholic, Family, Humanae Vitae, Janet Smith, Marriage, Natural Family Planning, NFP, NFP Awareness Week, Patty Schneier, Vicki Thorn

The USCCB’s site has some resources like homily helps, prayers of the faithful, prayers, couples’ witnesses (to be published in your local paper the week of/ before), and this awesome poster above (en espanol, tambien).
What are you doing in your area? Here are some ideas:
(Update 6/12: The Contraception Why Not DVD link wasn’t working, so I updated it.)
- Ask your DRE/ pastor/ parish secretary to order 1-3 of the above poster for your bulletin boards, and put up in the next two weeks.
- Give your pastor or deacon
A Preachable Message: The Dynamics of Natural Family Planning
or “Proclaiming Theology of the Body,” or “Reaching the Cafeteria Catholic” and encourage him that THIS IS A MESSAGE PEOPLE WANT TO HEAR.
- Have a Parish Novena of Sts. Joachim & Ann.
- Host Eucharistic Adoration for a Humanae Vitae Culture, using a litany of the Holy Family, and readings from a John Paul II (Familiaris Consortio or Theology of the Body would be great). Make sure confession is available.
- Have a local speaker (call your diocese’s evangelization or family life office) give a talk at your parish. Make sure it’s not a really stilted, expected title like “All About NFP.” People have stereotypes and misconceptions (no pun intended) about NFP, and they need to be broken. A local speaker in my diocese has a talk titled, “Family Planning: Think Outside the Pill,” that addresses the myths of contraception (safe, family friendly, reduces abortion), and contrasts it with the holistic, marriage building, spiritually sound NFP. Other title ideas: “NFP: It’s Not Your Mother’s Rhythm,” “Making Good Marriages Great,” “What Couples Need to Know About Birth Control” (and have a doctor give a rundown of contraceptive myths and failures).
- Have a CD/ DVD listening Session of a great speaker, and have a discussion group (make sure you have a well-formed, mature facilitator): Vicki Thorn’s “The Biochemistry of Sex” (Call (414) 483-4141 to order), and Janet Smith’s “Contraception: Why Not,”
- For Youth Directors: Don’t leave Teens Out! They need to know the honest truth about love, contraception (especially since half of them are on it for their acne), and the basics (not too much) of NFP: Patty Schneier’s “True Love: How Will I Know?” for Teens, Jason Evert’s “Romance Without Regret” for Teens.
- Have a Humanae Vitae Study Group: ENDOW has an amazing study workbook, but requires a trained facilitator. The ENDOW Study I might recommend for those who are new to catechesis on this subject, or may not “agree with Church teaching.” Catholic Scripture Study has a resource for a Humanae Vitae here. Priests for Life also has one here. There’s another one by Marian Catechists, but I can’t find the link.
- If you’ve got a little bit of money in your parish evangelization budget (I know money’s tight, but this will change lives), I guarantee that you won’t regret sending each one of your families Patty Schneier’s “Prove It, God!…And He Did” testimony by Patty Schneier. The diocese of Bismark, in a courageous and unprecedented NFP evangelization effort, sent a CD of Patty’s story to EVERY FAMILY IN THEIR ENTIRE DIOCESE, and the results were astounding. The Diocese received over 60 formal (and how many informal?) letters of support and gratitude, and the increase of interest in NFP and NFP-only medical care was so profound, that they had to “import” an NFP-only doctor just to help meet the need! WHAT? This is amazing. If they can find the money in North Dakota, you can too. Read more about this here.
Do you have any other ideas?
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June 9, 2009 at 8:36 am (Health, I Heart My Fertility)
Tags: Birth Control, Birth Control Dangers, Contraception, Ditch the Pill, Family Planning, Health, Natural Family Planning, NFP, Sex, The Pill, Women's, Women's Health, Women's Wellness

Developed migraines since starting the Pill? Have you had a pesky blood clot go to your lung or brain? Those darn birth control Pills may have been at it again!
I just found this great web site, a feminist support site devoted to educating people on the dangers of the Pill, aptly named “Ditch the Pill.” About the group whose entire non-sectarian goal is to empower women:
DitchThePill.org is a non-profit organization dedicated to the understanding, research and treatment of women’s health concerns caused by the toxic side effects of birth control pills (BCP’s). It was created in response to what is becoming a growing epidemic of health problems in women over the last 50 years, beginning with the introduction of oral contraceptives.
DitchThePill.org strongly feels that women should have a vital part in managing medical decisions regarding their own health. Prescription medications, particularly in the form of oral contraceptives, have unknowingly caused an epidemic of health problems in women since the advent of the Pill in the 1960’s.
Have you been told that taking BCP’s are the only way to prevent your family history of ovarian cancer? Oops, that’s not entirely supported anymore.
What’s the alternative, to a hormone-free, pro-fertility, pro-woman approach?
Shockingly (!), I’m going to suggest natural methods of family planning. You’re going to have to go elsewhere from this site to find information on Natural Family Planning (NFP), because, strangely enough, they don’t know all that much about modern NFP. Guess who’s going to give them a call today? Maybe you should too (281-962-4264).
NFP/ Fertility Awareness Resources:
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